The cry, the cold turkey

It is never easy to understand kids mentality when they throw tantrum out of the blue. How can you as a parent deal in this kind of situation?

It can be very frustrating when they do not tell you the reason.

One of the worst solution and yet not effective is to scold and beat the kids up.

This, however, is not helping at all. The situation may worsen as adult tried to force an answer out from them.

Hubby had tried all ways until he find that the best solution is to give them cold turkey treatment.

By keeping quiet while the kids cry non stop will made them know that they are no longer in control. In the end, they will give up and willing to tell you the why they throw tantrum. 

Talk to them after 10 min and keep the tone soft and stern. If it is time to say out the reason, they will.

Always emphasize that they are not allow to do it again. This may take a long time for them to realise, but it is not a bad way at all.

Kids can be very sensitive when adult accidentally do something not according to what they want. By giving in too many times will only let the kids know they are in control. If this goes on, it will be very hard for adult to discipline them. Normally, this does not always happen to the parents, but grandparents, because they dote the their grand children too much.

Whenever the kids scream and cry at home and not being corporative, this will bring the environment more and more tension. The only way the adult can do is to walk away from the scene and calm down before start dealing with the kids. 

So long as everyone is helping one and another, it will works! Patience is the key word to everything.